Oh yes! That time of year. My dearest most loved loyal blog
reader(s), it only took a walk through Family Mall and a drive in Ankawa
earlier this week to realize the red-Valentine fever is here too!
Women’s clothing shops have all their red dresses on the mannequins,
shops with stationery supplies have the entire red theme going on (I
have a picture to prove) And Family Mall for example has their usual
Valentine’s Day love seat for couples to take pictures on.
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| Kurdish woman making her lover’s gift, the Kurdistani way. Photo: Safin Hamed/AFP/Getty Images, taken from here |
I
will keep my ramblings and arguments
of Valentine’s Day to myself this time. However, in times of war,
conflict, hatred and in a world of killing I welcome any gesture of love
and will not stand or speak against it. In my part of the world
some people don’t even know Valentines Day exists, others plan their
wedding dates on this day. Some celebrate it not knowing the story
behind it’s existence, and there are others who find it shameful to wear
red on February 14th suggesting that it’s screaming out loud and clear:
“People! I AM IN LOVE!” Hence, mixed thoughts on this issue.
Society in general hasn’t made up its mind yet to accept or refute. I
would love to celebrate a day of love if the occasion commemorated some
of the biggest lovers/ love stories in Kurdish literature. I’d feel
like I own the occasion more. Or instead of chocolates, red roses and
teddy bears we can give the traditional
sewi mekhik, the apple
with cloves? There is so much Kurdish culture we can use, but
unfortunately it doesn’t have as much publicity or propaganda as those
of the west, and hence, we opt to forget our culture and just… go with
the teddy, red rose and the chocolates. Do I make sense? No? Any-howwww.
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| My never ending love for Nergis flowers fresh from the mountains of Kurdistan. Spring has come early! |
Celebrate love my dearest. Celebrate it today, tomorrow, every
February 14th and every other day of the year too! In the meantime this
week I felt March has arrived early and the sight of the Nergis
(narcissus) has taken my heart away! If you’re celebrating… how about
some Nergis flowers to your love instead of the typical red rose? Let’s
add a bit of Kurdish-ness to the day!
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| Made with love in Kurdistan Photo: Safin Hamed |
Love you always
From My Nest in Kurdistan
Sazan,
“
The preservation of a red apple with
cloves is a Kurdish tradition symbolizing Adam and Eve’s relation with
the apple, representing love and prosperity”
Read more:
http://kirkuknow.com/english/index.php/2013/02/kirkuk-celebrates-valentine/#ixzz3RhDsFdrb
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